Conditioned Responses - things that secretly control our mind, body, and behaviors called RESPONSES that we consciously or unconsciously know but still control our life
Problems start from MIND, MINDSET.
They may suffer the minor or severe effect of STRESS.Problems come from Mindset, Symptomatic medication is useless, that is why patients have to take medication for weeks, months, years or the lifetime to calm the symptoms of Chronic diseases down.
To some extent, NLP, Hypnosis, Meditation, relaxation therapies, Forgive, forget, Let it Go and Gratitude HELP better than medication.

Part IV: Conditioned Responses
Homesick is also the conditioned responses. People who live far away from home can have the feeling of homesick if they meet part of the condition like the new year festival, the union day, the changing to cold temperature like Christmas in Western countries; and Tet festival (lunar new year) in the north of Vietnam; the changing of decoration on the road, listening the festival songs. Any of the perceivable signals or imperceptible signals created the happy feeling at home can create the feeling of homesick.
13. Beliefs, religions, taboos and conditioned responses
The more we read and visit other countries and other people the more we know that we have different perceptions about taboos, customs, and religious rituals. If there is an object that you and a group of people see as taboos, by searching on the internet, we may find that this object is the ritual object of other people. Why do human beings have so much different in the concepts of taboos, religious customs, and festivals? The only right answer for this is the thinking. No matter what you do in your festivals or taboos, if you strongly believe it will bring luck, health, and happiness, you will feel good with the joining in festivals. Trainers and therapists use all the techniques to bring back good thoughts and right beliefs for their participants. |
· When visiting a graveyard, people place incense sticks on the tomb of their loved ones and on every tomb around in the area, regardless who’s in those tombs. · The bed headboard in the house can point in any direction but out to the street because only the coffin head points out to the street. The Vietnamese often do the funeral in their homes · On Fifth, fourteenth, and twenty-third of the months on Lunar Calendar are bad days to travel or to do anything major. The Vietnamese never never never travel far on those days. Never never never never open a business in those days. No one in Vietnam can answer me WHY. ( Perhaps he was too shocked by the think he encountered in Vietnam) · When two people in a family died within 100 days from each other, that is a very bad sign for the family because there will be more death in a very short time after that. - I have witnessed a family spent all their saving - and even borrowed money - on several elaborate rituals to expel the bad spell. · You should never touch anybody's head, nor point the soles of the feet at other people. Both are bad manners. · Every three years of the lunar calendar, a leap month is added to bring it back into line with the solar calendar. Weddings and new contracts are banned due to bad luck superstition during leap months, but dead people must be buried. · An Australian friend recently had a design problem when designing his bathroom: his Vietnamese wife insisted that the mirrors in the bathroom must not face the bedroom. · A girl often (99%) does not get married within a year after the death of her father or her mother. Any prearrangement has to be postponed. · Other person responded: I think it applies to guys, too. The death of a grandparent would mean no marriage for grandchildren within a year. · Travellingkid responded: Just a bit off the subject, in the article posted by one person, the author said: Confucius preaches, “Tam nhân đồng hành tất tổn nhất nhân” (Three men traveling will unavoidably lose one) - This is a wrong quote. The right quote is: “Tam nhân đồng hành tất hữu ngã sư.” Meaning: Three men traveling together, one is the mentor. That means every person that you encounter, there is at least one thing in him for you to learn. |

Who am I? Who are you? Why do you speak your language which is very difficult for me? Why do you have your religious? Are you ok if someone mistakenly spells your name wrong? WHAT IS THE TIME? What time is it in your country? IS THERE ANY RELATION BETWEEN HUMAN BEINGS? Time is the assumption of Relativity to make we understand the relatives of Phenomena. Time is the illusion/definition that let us know the relativity of things. 1 second equal the N times of an Electron traveling around it Atom. So time is the assumption of moment moving. From the second we have the hour and the day. Time is relative. If American, Vietnamese, Chinese, Germany goes to live on the Moon, What is the day they will have? When will they celebrate the New Year? In time there is motion. And some scientist can write the equation without time. Time, space, weight, length all of these appear in the definition of other. They are interdependent factors. So the world is interdependent. We try to separate is to support for better of thinking, communicating, and developing. It is just an assumption. I am FROM THE WORLD. SOLAR SYSTEM, GALAXY. 2018.All in one; one in all. Do not forget that we are interdependent. We are one. We share the same sources. Billions have died, born and disappear, events also. And the mass of earth does not change. You exhale the air other inhale, you eat the things have sourced from the waste of others. .... When we realize, we will free from Depression, fear, anxiety, and anger, and free from the Fights and Flights at home, work and in bed. WE WILL FREE FROM ALL TERMINOLOGIES OF PROBLEMS IN PHYSICAL HEALTH, WEALTH AND LIVING. Look at the wars, the wars of religions. We will find that GOD DO NOT BLESS THEM, GOD DO NOT HELP THEM. THEY DO BLESS THEM. AND Mind masters like to play the game of thorn to code the mind of millions of people. GOD DO NOT BLESS THEM. THEY BLESS THEM, WE BLESS THEM. The effects, side effects of stress hormones controlled by Brain cover all symptoms of ADHD, Gut Feeling, Autistic spectrum. What do you think? Do you know conditioned response? Your language, skill, driving skills, professions, the pattern of behaviors and pattern of emotion, fear or anxiety or excitement are CONDITIONED RESPONSES. Even Walking, naming, ritual, taboos are coded in the mind of people, dogs, or tamed animals as conditioned responses. infant left in Jungle will have the conditioned responses of the animals which adopt him. Maybe he will like to crawl instead of walk. WHAT HAPPENS if golden time: formation of the brain and vital social skills lack vital things? Forget the useless assumption. As I know, many Ph.D. have the highest degree in psychology but do not live well with husband and family, rigid knowledge does not help us much. |

Table 10: food, animals, religions and conditioned responses
Meat | Religious, belief, regions | Responses | |
Pork | Buddhism | ||
Beef | Hinduism | ||
Lamb | Islam | ||
Dog meat | Taoism | ||
Spider | Christianity | ||
Kangaroos | Hinduism | ||
Crocodile | Westerner: American, French, Italian, Australian | ||
Shark Fin | Easterner: Chinese, Korean, Vietnamese, India |
The weird traditions and strange customs
Unusual death rituals
References:
Time for contemplation: mixing pictures to find out the cause and cure
14. A brief history of humankind
Cosmic calendar
Facts of human history reveal mysterious of humankind:
Between 8500 and 7000 BC, humans in the Fertile Crescent in the Middle East began the systematic husbandry of plants and animals: agriculture. Adopting agriculture increased productivity provided by farming allowed the population to expand. Agriculture had a major impact; humans began to affect the environment as never before. Surplus food allowed a priestly or governing class to arise, followed by increasing division of labor. This led to Earth's first civilization at Sumer in the Middle East, between 4000 and 3000 BC. Additional civilizations quickly arose in ancient Egypt, at the Indus River valley, and in China. The invention of writing enabled complex societies to arise. Record, keeping, and libraries served as a storehouse of knowledge and increased the cultural transmission of information. Humans no longer had to spend all their time working for survival, enabling the first specialized occupations like craftsmen, merchants, priests, etc… Curiosity and education drove the pursuit of knowledge and wisdom, and various disciplines, including primitive science, arose. This, in turn, led to the emergence of increasingly larger and more complex civilizations, such as the first empires, which at times traded with one another, or fought for territory and resources. By around 500 BC, there were advanced civilizations in the Middle East, Iran, India, China, and Greece, at times expanding, at times entering into decline. In 221 BC, China became a single polity that would grow to spread its culture throughout East Asia. The religious, philosophical, and customs of China and India have been mixing to create the religious, philosophy and customs in Eastern Asia. These mixing of religious customs and philosophy have remained in some countries in Eastern Asia. In the feudal system in Vietnam and China, if the feudal mandarins had made the big contribution to the development of the feudal system, after dying they might become the Holy Spirits just by a decree of the King. The King of feudal system decreed that the people of the community built a temple as a worship place for the loyal mandarin. After that, the people in the community have held a ceremony or regional festival every year on the date that the loyal mandarin died. Some of the regional festivals are still held by the people of the community to the present time. There are many regional festivals held every year in Vietnam, Korea, China, and Japan. These festivals are the occasions for the people to worship their Holy Spirit and their ancestors. One tradition in Asia is any death individuals, after dying their pictures will be put on the altar of the family for the family members make worship. The pictures of dead people may be put next to the pictures of Buddha and many other Holy Spirits.
The Kings in the feudal system use the religious as a tool to rule their peoples. Many myths created to make people think that the kings were the representative of God. The words of kings, the decisions, or the decrees were the imperial edicts. These imperial edicts were like the orders of God. People had to kneel to listen to the imperial edicts of kings. In Vietnamese history, a king who had made one serious wrong imperial edict to exterminate Nguyen Trai, an illustrious Vietnamese Confucian scholar, a noted poet, a skilled politician and a master strategist, along with their entire extended families, approximately one hundred people. Kings in the feudal system were powerful as God; they could make the punishment of nine familial exterminations or nine kinship exterminations; the punishment could make one hundred innocent people with little resistance. Twenty years later after the extermination of Nguyen Trai, the king Lê Thanh Tong officially pardoned Nguyen Trai, saying that he was wholly innocent in the death of King Le Thai Tong. Then Nguyen Trai was divinized; people started to build tempers to make worship Nguyen Trai as a Holy Spirit. Relating to the death of one hundred people of Nguyen’s family because of the feudal governors’ injustice, there was a rumor about the revenge of poisonous snake spread among the common people. Many people believed this rumor. They were so afraid of this rumor, afraid that poisonous may revenge them so that they dared not to talk about this event. Even many people in Vietnam recently still believe if the disaster happened to someone, it is maybe the revenge of poisonous snake. The punishment by nine exterminations was popular in ancient China, Korea, and Vietnam. The punishment by nine exterminations is usually associated with the tyrannical rulers throughout Chinese history who were prone to use inhumane methods of asserting control compare with slow slicing, or "death by ten thousand cuts". The first written account of the concept is in the Classic of History, officers would threaten their subordinates that they would exterminate their families if they refused to obey orders. Kings and yellow emperors considered the God, with severe punishments or sentence punishments, the myths, belief, and philosophy, the governors had created the conditioned obey without any resistance. If people disobeyed any decisions of the yellow emperors, they would be frightening or became panicking. No one, even the richest man, the strongest man could have enough the courage to resist the orders of the kings if they wanted to have a good life. The fundamentals of Western civilization were largely shaped in Ancient Greece with the world's first democratic government and major advances in philosophy, science, and mathematics. In Ancient Rome shaped major advances in law, government, and engineering. The Roman Empire was Christianized by Emperor Constantine in the early fourth century and declined by the end of the fifth century. Beginning with the seventh century, Christianization of Europe began. The teaching of different religions makes differences in the organization of pagodas and churches. In pagoda in eastern Asia, there are many statues of the holy spirits that people do not know, and the statue of Buddha, sometimes I even see the picture of a monk who has just gone, sometimes the pagodas are much more chaos than churches. There is no image of any dead people on the altars or churches. Looking for the answer, I find the commandments of God “You shall have no other gods before Me. And you shall not make idols”. The fact is there is no any teaching of Buddha-like this. This finding leads to the conclusion that we are the product of the things we believe.In 610, Islam founded and quickly became the dominant religion in Western Asia. The House of Wisdom established in Abbasid-era Baghdad, Iraq. It considered having been a major intellectual center during the Islamic Golden Age, where Muslim scholars in Baghdad and Cairo flourished from the ninth to the thirteenth centuries until the Mongol sack of Baghdad in 1258 AD. In 1054, the Great Schism between the Roman Catholic Church and the Eastern Orthodox Church led to the prominent cultural differences between Western and Eastern Europe. In the 14th century, the Renaissance began in Italy with advances in religion, art, and science. At that time, the Christian Church as a political entity lost much of its power. In 1492, Christopher Columbus reached the Americas, initiating great changes to the new world. European civilization began to change beginning in 1500, leading to the scientific and industrial revolutions. That continent began to exert political and cultural dominance over human societies around the world. From 1914 to 1918 the nations around the world were embroiled World War I, and from 1939 to 1945 the nations around the world were embroiled in World War II. Established following World War I, the League of Nations was a first step in establishing international institutions to settle disputes peacefully. After failing to prevent World War II, the bloodiest conflict of humankind, the League of Nations was replaced by the United Nations. After the war, many new states were formed, declaring or being granted independence in a period of decolonization. The United States and the Soviet Union became the world's dominant superpowers for a time. The big question was Adolf Hitler the man created the World War II? Would World War II have happened if Adolf Hitler had drowned when he was a child? Or was the War the product of disputes and conflicts of the beliefs, philosophies, and opinions among human kind of that time? Reading the brief of human history, we may see that human beings are the creators and receivers of phenomena relating to human life. We are the servants of our own belief, customs, religion, rituals, and taboos, which are the products or opinions of previous philosophers. Each stage of human history has its own characters with the events, people and the dominating philosophy. Millions of people died in these events are just the small dots in the chapter of dominating philosophy in human history. Human beings have been conditioned so silently and sophisticatedly that we may think that our beliefs, opinions, actions, behaviors, customs, religions, rituals, and taboos are parts of their constant identities or Egos. We sometimes obsess about our beliefs, opinions, religions, rituals, and taboos so much that we may beat, threaten, or kill others if they violate one of the thoughts. Talking about the definition of religions, I love the teaching of Muhammad Ali: “Rivers, ponds, lakes, and streams - they all have different names, but they all contain water. Just as religions do - they all contain truths.” In my understanding, religions are the powerful belief, the belief comes from the thinking of protecting, caring, loving and giving from their Holy Spirits. All people will become equal under the caring of their Holy Spirit. With the protecting, caring, giving and loving from their God, people will feel safe to dare to work more, dream more, risk more, sacrifice more and take more action. All customs, rituals, and behavior like praying, asking, worshipping will reinforce the belief of people. Believing will make people feel safe in danger; they will more open to other, and more generous than in a stressed state. Believing will activate the happy state of mind to make people take more good behaviors. In the human world, religions that are the most powerful invisible forces control the behaviors of human beings. From the table some religions in the world, Can you imagine how well for you if you adopt one of these religions, or do the ideas contrasted to your religious rituals? Can you have a clear answer what is your religion, what is your cousin’s religion, what is your friend religion, what is your spouse religion? And Why do you, your friend and your spouse have that religion?
Table 11: Some religions in the world
ReligiousDescription God(s)? Afterlife? Holy Texts? Ancestor worship A belief that good relations need to be kept with tribal ancestor spirits. Not defined Yes None Buddhism The belief that meditation and good living can break the cycle of reincarnation and result in enlightenment Atheist Reincarnation until escape Multifaceted Atheism Either the active and extrinsic disbelief that God exists or not Atheist Not defined None Hinduism Cultural religion of India which was historically decentralized and disparate, and not a single belief system. Polytheist Reincarnation until escape Multifaceted Islam Strict monotheism taught by Muhammad Monotheist Heaven or hell Qur'an and Hadiths Taoism A relaxed and peaceful religion based on following and accepting the flow of life Atheist None Tao Te Ching Christianity Belief that a single creator god had a son, Jesus Christ, born to a human mother, and that Jesus' crucifixion by the Romans brings salvation Monotheist Heaven or hell The Bible Confucianism A collection of ethical and moral teachings Atheist None Chinese religion A varied cultural religion practiced traditionally on a town-by-town and region-by-region basis Atheist Reincarnation until escape None Heaven's Gate Apocalyptic suicide cult who combined Biblical eschatology with New Age and ideas about UFOs. All 39 members committed suicide in San Diego, the USA in 1997 Theist Yes Christian Apostolic Church in Zion Fundamentalist Anti-science flat-earth Christian cult, who also predicted the End of the World would occur 4 different times Theist Heaven or hell The Bible Raja Yoga An astika school of Hindu philosophy based on mastering and quieting the mind, involving meditation Polytheist The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali Order of the Solar Temple Apocalyptic suicide cult, with mass suicides in Switzerland, France, and Quebec, in preparation for Jesus' second coming Theist Yes The Bible and other People's Temple Apocalyptic suicide cult that imploded, resulting in the deaths of over 600 adults and 276 children Theist Heaven or hell The Bible
Source: http://www.humanreligions.info/religions.html
Religious | Description | God(s)? | Afterlife? | Holy Texts? |
Ancestor worship | A belief that good relations need to be kept with tribal ancestor spirits. | Not defined | Yes | None |
Buddhism | The belief that meditation and good living can break the cycle of reincarnation and result in enlightenment | Atheist | Reincarnation until escape | Multifaceted |
Atheism | Either the active and extrinsic disbelief that God exists or not | Atheist | Not defined | None |
Hinduism | Cultural religion of India which was historically decentralized and disparate, and not a single belief system. | Polytheist | Reincarnation until escape | Multifaceted |
Islam | Strict monotheism taught by Muhammad | Monotheist | Heaven or hell | Qur'an and Hadiths |
Taoism | A relaxed and peaceful religion based on following and accepting the flow of life | Atheist | None | Tao Te Ching |
Christianity | Belief that a single creator god had a son, Jesus Christ, born to a human mother, and that Jesus' crucifixion by the Romans brings salvation | Monotheist | Heaven or hell | The Bible |
Confucianism | A collection of ethical and moral teachings | Atheist | None | |
Chinese religion | A varied cultural religion practiced traditionally on a town-by-town and region-by-region basis | Atheist | Reincarnation until escape | None |
Heaven's Gate | Apocalyptic suicide cult who combined Biblical eschatology with New Age and ideas about UFOs. All 39 members committed suicide in San Diego, the USA in 1997 | Theist | Yes | |
Christian Apostolic Church in Zion | Fundamentalist Anti-science flat-earth Christian cult, who also predicted the End of the World would occur 4 different times | Theist | Heaven or hell | The Bible |
Raja Yoga | An astika school of Hindu philosophy based on mastering and quieting the mind, involving meditation | Polytheist | The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali | |
Order of the Solar Temple | Apocalyptic suicide cult, with mass suicides in Switzerland, France, and Quebec, in preparation for Jesus' second coming | Theist | Yes | The Bible and other |
People's Temple | Apocalyptic suicide cult that imploded, resulting in the deaths of over 600 adults and 276 children | Theist | Heaven or hell | The Bible |
IT IS THE MIND – THE STATE OF MIND
Meditation, alternative therapies, NLP, Affirmation, love-hug-kindness can help to control and master the mind. Science reaches to the fail of finding a single cause of the diseases from the mind: mental illness, thinking, and poor abilities. Because the mind is not like body. The body will give away all you put in just in several hours or days according to its half-life: food, vegetable, medicines, chemical, additives, mercury, gold, nutrition. Even body can heal the small abnormal cause by X-ray. But the mind keeps all in the conscious mind and subconscious mind. Millions of events, phenomena called Negative thinking, negative events, negative emotions and negative experiences compound into the disease in mind, brain, body, abilities, genes, and health. It covers all terminologies in medical books. They are interdependent factors. How can Scientist figure out a single CAUSE? 5 minutes of rapping can affect whole life. 5 minutes of abusing can make victims fear whole life 1 minute of bombing, earthquake, the killing can affect their whole life. It creates the conditioned of Fight and Flight that they can not consciously control. WAIT: but all successful people have experienced this. How? Do only medication? Nop: medication can help to control and relieve but cannot cure. Some Examples: Abraham Lincoln, Oprah Winfrey, their friends and their heroes, teachers. Who teaches this? Jame Allen, Abraham Maslow, Napoleon Hill, Benjamin Franklin, John Maxwell, Norman Vincent Peal, Buddha, God, hundreds of Self Help authors, leaders and religious leaders. They teach: Causes and Effects Sowing and reaping Compound effects of millions interdependent causes/effects. Try to find a single cause: we will fail. And SCIENTISTS HIT THE PARADOXES This makes Autistic Robot with extremely high IQ cannot catch abilities of human beings. Overstress may make depression and poor learning in adults so what does stress make on kids and infants. What pills for all? I see many victims. How, what pills for irrational hysterical coded Stress mind/ World??? Pavlov has taught about Conditioned Reflex. NLP take advantages of this with the science of mind and achievement. All art of communicating is using the knowledge of mind to talk, discuss and persuade people based on the need of people. THINGS ALL SHOULD KNOW IS PEOPLE ARE CONTROLLED BY HUMAN DRIVE: certainty, uncertainty, love and connection, significance, Growth, and contribution. Anger, anxiety, behavior, depressed, name, lack of mindfulness, lack of concentration, taboo, fear, happiness are Conditioned Responses; the are unconsciously coded and silently control us. It can explain why Alternative therapies help. So best of all is an effective combination the advantages of all therapist. Do you think the pills that pharmacy sell, therapist recommend, and Ph.D. created work for you? It is good for acute, know the causes. But IT JUST MAKE TEMPORARY and short-term. FOR LONG TERM, forget medication, start to find meditation. REDEFINE OF STRESS The right definition of stress: human beings have basic human needs described by Abraham Maslow. Anything threatens of satisfying these needs will lead to Fight and Flight responses. IF people cannot change the situation, threaten, they will be the victims of STRESS AND STRESS HORMONES. Felt signs caught by the Religious leader, artist, Educator, better than Ph.D., Scientist & Autistic machine. So NLP, affirmation, meditation is better than medicine, punishment How can we heal, prevent, treat the things we do not know? A lot of resources put in researching and carrying out but the trend of Suicide, Autism, ADHD, Gunfire are Soaring??? Autism, Depression, ADHD: need to read 3 signals: 1. Indifference: low energy/activities 2. Fight: overreact to things. 3. Fight: to the crowd has fear, anxiety, withdraw Every day, approximately 121 Americans take their own life. Ninety percent of all people who die by suicide have a diagnosable psychiatric disorder at the time of their death. PARADOXES OF HARVARD PARADOXES OF SCIENCE PARADOXES OF THE MORE. SORRY, With Coded hysterical angry stressed MIND/men, any tools: bottles, cars, trucks, airplanes, GUNS, protective tools, gas, protective weapons can become the tools to cheat, harm, make hurt or kill others. But with Coded grateful, happy, kind, peaceful MIND/men, any tools: bottles, cars, trucks, airplanes, GUNS, protective tools, gas, protective weapons can become the tools to help, make peace or heal others. It is not controlling the gun, but the most important is control the things that make the head use the gun It is not gun-control but most important is control what makes the mind want to use the gun to fire. SLEEPNESS COME FROM WORRY OF THE DISEASES OF YOUR CHILD, THE ANGER OF THE WORKPLACE, THE FEAR OF YOUR FAULT MAY BE REVEALED. What's pill? Pressure from Work, School, Study, Family. Ability smaller than PRESSURE leads to Fear, Anxiety, Depression, Insomnia, Headache, Distraction, Upset Stomach, and Blood pressure, blood glucose always raises for FIGHT & FLIGHT Mechanism. Problems start from MIND, MINDSET. They may suffer the minor or severe effect of STRESS. Problems come from Mindset, Symptomatic medication is useless, that is why patients have to take medication for weeks, months, years or the lifetime to calm the symptoms of Chronic diseases down. WHEN WILL WE INTERPRET STATE or QUALITY of HUMAN MIND into EVENTS, DISEASES, and DISASTERS. EVENTS: gunfire, homicide; DISEASES: autism, ADHD, Depression, Suicide, Chronic diseases, and DISASTERS: flood, Tsunami, Earthquake... and its increasing TREND is the interdependent phenomena? |

Thank you all, This answer is part of my book: "Yes to can autism, ADHD, depression be predicted, prevented, and healed". These are quick brief of my works As you see, they lack social skills, they cannot talk: language is the product of living environment - as your native language and my native language, we speak it naturally without thinking at all. We are not born with our native language, so I doubt their connection with their living environment and/or the state of mind that they can not/don't want to learn. You can test them with Aesop fables(they do not understand), pretending game - they do not understand, interacting, communicating or persuading. They are at a low level of this. For official test: you can test them with EQ test. All these low-level vital skills make them never feel safe, connection to the environment: it makes them stress. Over time, it makes the downward spiral that make them more and more lack of social skills and suffer more stress that we do not know. Poor in EQ answer why do autistic kids not understand fable and Aesop stories? Which philosophy can explain how genes make them poor in EQ, and cognitive thinking? We know too little about genes but as a trainer, I know that any skill can be learned with just simple basic supports. We are working with the MIND: things we should remember about the mind: irrational mind, the giant brain evolved for millions of years, illogical mind and Placebo effects, Neuro-plasticity, Mirror neurons, self-affirmation, self-talk, compound effects, CONDITIONED RESPONSES, and ILLUSIVE MIND, IRRATIONAL THINKING: what if all of these lead to negativity or positivity? Maybe Outliers or Failures! They rarely joy It is said by genes So they accept it as gifts Or nobles term, not diseases Even they take more expensive medication than other illness. Challenging ideas to think out of the box have written. How I know they are under stress: read their behaviors, read the body language. In stress state, stress chemicals: adrenalin, noradrenalin, and cortisol will dominate the body. The effect of these stress chemicals listed in any medical book and look closer we can see all these effects are available in kids, to some extents, the effects caused by stress chemicals are the best answer for the autistic rainbow. Sorry, they are not happy with the label GIFT. Yes: all in one, one in all. Do you think they are stress because of lacking social skills so the suffer stress during interaction: even in families, school, and society? So they do not have a chance to learn, to grow and gain vital skills. We are not alone the victims. Even millions people and therapist has cheated also. And to some extent, one not only the victims but also the creators. REDEFINE OF STRESS The right definition of stress: human beings have basic human needs described by Abraham Maslow. Anything threatens of satisfying these needs will lead to Fight and Flight responses. IF people cannot change the situation, threaten, they will be the victims of STRESS AND STRESS HORMONES. We hunger for this: Real needs of human being and real lack of modern people: we make the statistics or studies to see the effects of these four factors: 1. Unconditional love: love with greed, anger, ignorance is not real love. Right love should be with UNDERSTANDING: the self, other, and situation. 2. Connection: people, animal, diversified nature, understanding with parents: technology cut all chance of connection and make poor of any connection people have. 3. Chances or suitable problems to build muscle, ability to help them deal with the fact of life. (The way of self-made millionaires raise their kids) 4. Unstressed environment: happy, warm, cheering; then make them have the feeling of safety, certainty to work, try, play, do and fail... they have more skill and abilities to deal with the needed problems, the challenge in life. Understand the characters of problems: we will have a better view of the Causes: We are an interdependent world: no single cause create all thing, but all things are in the interdependent web. So how can we blame for food, genes, chemicals, guns, drugs for our problems? They interact in the hidden web, to some extent, just a Blink (Malcolm Gladwell) of the sages, leaders will give the Gut Feelings about the situation, and our world. EARLY DETECTION AND INTERVENTION CAN BE DONE SINCE 2,3 OR 4 MONTHS OLD: READ ALL THE THINGS WE SEE With normal development, 2-3 months old children have the responses, interested, pay attention to the talking and smile back, shaking hands and body when parents talk directly to them. Do this regularly, you if you see the signs of not paying attention or indifference: the early signs of stress, over time children, may get more severe problems in the brain and mental problems. Observe the pattern of sleeping, eating, crying, and emotion to realize early signs since 1-2-3 months old to have an early simple intervention. ALL IN ONE, ONE IN ALL, it is time to combine all. Dear, Neurologist, psychiatrist, sociologist, gastroenterologist, urologist, educators, sleep therapists, cardiologist, language therapists: there is no separation in the health of heart, stomach, muscle, cognitive thinking, sleeping, hormone system: all are interdependent and under the state of mind. IT IS THE ADVANTAGES OF EASTERN PHILOSOPHY AND THE BASIC OF EASTERN TRADITIONAL MEDICINE. It is time to combine all we help to heal effectively. Do you have gut feelings that we all of the problems we treat depend on the state of mind? The fluctuation of state of mind may determine the quality of treating some chronic diseases. The compound of state of mind, emotions. The symptoms may reduce when patients feel better, in a good state of peace of mind (Zen masters, happy men maybe use the least medicine in our communities) The highest teaching of Gandhi, Mother Teresa, Jesu teaches about love, kindness, and golden rules. Yin - Yang, Buddhism, Lao Tzu teach about the emptiness, egoless, nothingness of the interdependent world, so best way of living in that society is treat well with others. Go against that, or living with three poisons: Greed, Anger, and Ignorance: we will suffer? So Who suffer first in the angry, greedy communities, and how is the mechanism require the join hands of all people? Language is a vital skill: with connect variation of sound to specific meaning, it is not easy at all, but it takes times and supports to gain it; it is skilled as others skills that they lack: it is not because of genes cause learning. RIGHT? SUFFERING WORLD! When do we realize the Effects of stressed mind on brain, body, world? In mind, the brain we called mental problems, insomnia, headache, suicide problems, social problems. Effects of stress on the stomach, intestine we called the stomach problems, gastrointestinal problems; on heart, vein, we call cardiovascular diseases. Stress on the school: school problems Stress on the world we called human problems, which may lead to World War. Stress start from the state of mind. It is in the cluster: suicide, autism, ADHD, depression have the same hidden cause. We still cheat yourself that the soaring number of autism, ADHD, and depression come from diagnosing... no, we are wrong. These problems have relation and the number of suicide goes with other numbers. And death from suicide does not come from DIAGNOSING! ASKING THE SAGE: " HOW THERE ARE SO VARIOUS PEOPLE? HE SAID: "ONLY BABIES ARE BORN!" and he smiles: " We are living on heavenly earth." My book is available to download on Amazon and free read on KDP library "Awaken You Wonderful we" I Hope that together we can help more people effectively. My helpful book with many useful ideas can be downloaded on AMAZON or Free Read on KDP library: FB and my facebook page: |
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